Heals The Original Dryness

DaMadFiddler: [hug]
NeeliaBuzz: i hate women
DaMadFiddler: come, now...don't use them as an example of everyone. That's how prejudice gets started.
NeeliaBuzz: when i say "women" what i mean is "a group of females"
DaMadFiddler: I know
DaMadFiddler: it's still a stereotype, though.
NeeliaBuzz: i dont hold all women to these stereotypes
DaMadFiddler: and if you use it enough, it becomes your justification...your crutch you can lean on if you don't have a better argument.
NeeliaBuzz: i got called a whore
NeeliaBuzz: i think i'm entitled to a crutch right now
DaMadFiddler: all right; I'm just saying, don't let the actions of one affect your views of others.
NeeliaBuzz: it's actually not just her actions. its the revisting of memories of actions of many many others
NeeliaBuzz: thats why i say "i hate women" because this is not the first time a conclusion has been made about me behind my back which i was then forcably exposed to
NeeliaBuzz: and i wasn't happy then, and i wasnt happy now
NeeliaBuzz: /with this whole incident
DaMadFiddler: :-\
NeeliaBuzz: i do get a cringe in my stomach whenever i meet a girl as just a girl, and it bothers me that i have that reaction, but i don't let that hinder me to the point where i hate them without knowing them
NeeliaBuzz: so don't you worry about my stereotypes
DaMadFiddler: heh
DaMadFiddler: just offering some friendly advice...but I'll butt out :-P
NeeliaBuzz: not all negative stereotypes are true, and not all POSITIVE stereotypes are true
DaMadFiddler: yes, I know that.
NeeliaBuzz: hun, we spent a week talking about stereotypes in the social psychology section of intro to psych, and this was also with a wonderful wonderful teacher. so yeah, basically, "butt out"
DaMadFiddler: jeez...sorry.
NeeliaBuzz: (i'm sorry, i'm very testy right now, as you can understand/see)

me? defensive? after 3 days of being accused of things that aren't my fault? no... never...